The collapse of a relationship can have a disastrous impact on the people involved. It can make the ones left behind emotionally devastated and longing for a reunion. We believe God answers prayer for reconciliation with an ex if it’s part of His good, pleasing and perfect will.
Ask God for discernment. Let Him show you where you might be responsible for the breakdown in the relationship. Ask for forgiveness, strength, and opportunities to win your ex back.
Through it all, let God be at the center. Seek Him first, and all these things will be added unto you.
Let us pray.
Prayers for Reconciliation With An Ex
Prayer For Your Reconciliation With An Ex
God our Father in Heaven, we stand before You in prayer, humble before Your great presence. We pray for those hoping to be reunited with their ex. Lord Jesus, You said that whenever two or three are gathered in Your Name, there You will be. We humbly ask for Your presence beside us. We know that the prayers of the righteous are powerful and effective, yet we claim no righteousness of our own other than the righteousness of our Lord Jesus. Lord, we ask that you guide them on the path to reconciliation. Help them to discern and see what they need to do to reunite with their ex successfully. As they wait, heal them of past hurts and emotional damage. Make them whole again, Lord. Forgive them of their sins and release them from all guilt. Help them grow in character and wisdom so that they will be a better partner when the relationship is mended. Remove any lingering pride and let them be humble before You, Lord. May they accept any mistakes they have made and help them to make things right. Open doors of opportunity for them to communicate in an open, humble, and honest manner. May they forgive each other just as You forgave them. May they see each other in a new light and grow in fondness for each other. May they lay new foundations in their relationship and let everything they lay be built on the foundation of Your love. May they be rooted in their relationship with You and have You in the center of their lives. May they honor and praise You in everything they do. May You answer this prayer and be with them always; in Jesus’ name, we pray. And God’s people said, “Amen!”.
📖 Romans 12:2
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will."
Short Prayer For Reconciliation With An Ex
Father in heaven, we pray for those desiring to be reunited with their ex. Give them opportunities, Lord, to meet and communicate in a humble manner. Remove any pride, hurt or pain that they may have in their hearts. Help them to acknowledge their mistakes in humility and to forgive each other with love. Mold their character in the time that they are waiting to be reunited and help them grow in patience. May they also pursue a deeper relationship with You just as they desire reconciliation. May they be right with You and seek Your will in their lives. May You guide them and be with them always. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
📖 Matthew 6:33
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."
Prayer For Reconciliation With An Ex-Boyfriend
Lord God, we come to You praying for those wanting to be reunited with their ex-boyfriends. Guide and bless these women, Lord, as they seek ways to be together again with their loved ones. Heal them of any pain or hurts that they may have in their hearts. Make them whole again and forgive them their sins just as they forgive their ex of any past sins. May they be united with You in spirit, desiring to know Your ways as deeply as they desire to be reunited. Make them grow in character and beauty. Remove any stumbling blocks to reconciliation and correct any mistakes that they may have made. May they seek Your righteousness, Lord, in everything they do. We thank You, Lord, for answering this prayer in Jesus’ name. Amen.
📖 Psalm 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
Prayer For Reconciliation With An Ex-Girlfriend
Lord God, Heavenly Father, we pray for those wanting to be reunited with their ex-girlfriend. Lead these men, Lord, as they work to be joined again with the one they love. Help them to take responsibility for any mistakes they have made in the relationship. Forgive them of their sins and help them forgive the sins of others. Fill them with Your spirit and remind them that they don’t have a spirit of fear but have a spirit of power, love, and self-discipline. May they boldly take the steps to reconciliation and look at them with favor. Help them to persist through rejections and mold their character in the process. Remove any stumbling blocks and clear the way for them. Let them not forget Your goodness, and in everything, may they give thanks ad praise Your name. We claim and agree that this prayer is answered in Jesus’s mighty Name. Amen.
📖 1 John 1:9
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Prayer For Someone You Love To Come Back
Lord, we praise You for everything that You have done. We know nothing is impossible with You. We approach Your throne and pray for those who desire a loved one to come back into their life. Lord, we know You value relationships, especially in a world that seems to prefer disposable relationships. We know You value faith and perseverance. We ask that You help them be reunited. And they seek to be joined together again, forgive them their sins and mistakes and help them forgive each other. Give them fresh memories and erase the hurts and pains they may have experienced before. Make them better than before and walk beside them as they seek to become a better version of themselves. We know all of these are possible with You. We lift up everything to You, Lord, in Jesus’s name. Amen.
📖 Proverbs 3:5-6
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
Prayer Of Intercession For Reconciliation
Lord, we stand in the gap and pray for those who are separated from their loved ones to be reconciled again. Let nothing that God put together be separated. Make a way for them to be reunited and be together again. Forgive them their sins, and may they forgive each other of past offenses. Open their hearts, Lord, and make them open to talking to each other. May they only speak in love and listen with love as well. Open the doors of their heart and make the way smooth, Lord. Do not let the enemy put stumbling blocks in their way. May You reign in the center of their lives, and may they look only to You to make things right. We thank You in advance for answering this prayer in Jesus’s name. Amen.
📖 Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Prayer For Restoring Love
Lord God, we pray that love is restored in their relationship, Lord. Forgive the past offenses that may have caused pain and anguish. Heal their hearts and remove the emotional wounds. Replace it with fresh grace that comes from You, Lord. May they remember that You loved them so much that You gave Your Son to die for their sins. May they make amends to each other and build each other up. Renew the relationship again and make it stronger. Rebuild the trust and strengthen their character. Make them more open and humble in their communication. We know nothing is impossible with You, and we ask all this in Jesus’s name. We pray. Amen.
📖 Ephesians 4:32
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
Prayer For Restoring A Relationship
Lord God, we pray for those with broken relationships, and may You make them whole again. Help them to restore bridges of communication, and may they forgive each other’s mistakes. May they remember the joy that they had in the past and allow them to overlook the sins of the past just as You gave them a clean slate and forgave their sins. We pray they will come back together stronger, more mature, more humble, and more understanding of each other. May You grant us this prayer in Jesus’s name we pray. Amen.
📖 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
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Prayer Points for Reconciliation With An Ex
Use these prayer points to guide your personal prayer time:
- Pray for God's wisdom and discernment to understand His will regarding reconciliation with your ex
- Ask God to reveal any areas where you contributed to the breakdown of the relationship
- Pray for genuine repentance and the humility to seek forgiveness for your mistakes
- Ask God to heal your broken heart and bind up your emotional wounds
- Pray for strength to wait patiently on God's timing and perfect plan
- Ask God to soften your ex's heart and open doors for meaningful communication
- Pray for protection from making decisions based on emotions rather than God's guidance
- Ask God to help you seek Him first above the desire for reconciliation
- Pray for restoration of trust and love if reconciliation is part of God's will
- Ask God to give you the grace to forgive your ex for any hurt they have caused
- Pray for opportunities to demonstrate changed behavior and renewed commitment
- Ask God to remove any obstacles standing in the way of reconciliation if it aligns with His purpose
- Pray for the ability to love your ex with Christ-like, unconditional love
- Ask God for peace and contentment regardless of the outcome
- Pray for both you and your ex to grow spiritually through this season of separation
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Bible Verses for Reconciliation With An Ex
Find strength and comfort in these scriptures:
Romans 12:2
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-his good, pleasing and perfect will."
Matthew 6:33
"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."
Psalm 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
1 John 1:9
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
Proverbs 3:5-6
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
Jeremiah 29:11
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Ephesians 4:32
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you."
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
Psalm 34:18
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
Matthew 19:26
"Jesus looked at them and said, 'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.'"