3 Loving Prayers to Soften My Husband’s Heart

This prayer to soften my husband’s heart comes straight from my heart. The bible tells us that husbands are meant to love their wives earnestly.

This prayer asks God to intercede and bring that earnest love back. When a husband is harsh and has hardened his heart it is incredibly difficult and hard to find a way through the situation.

When we pray for this, we praise God for the perfect union we once had that was created in his name.

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Prayer to Soften Someone’s Heart

Dear Lord,

Please, soften the heart of the one I love. Help them to see me as I truly am: a flawed but good person who loves them deeply. Only then can we begin to heal the wounds that have been inflicted on us both.

Bring us both back closer than we’ve ever been. Dear God, please help soften their heart.

I know that nothing is impossible for you, and I trust that in time, all will be made right.

Thank you for hearing my prayer.


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A Prayer to Soften Your Husband’s Heart

This was a longer prayer shared with our YouTube congregation. You can watch the video above to join us in this prayer or we have shorter prayers for love that could also offer to God.

Lord, I cannot understand why my husband has turned from me. I just want him to soften back towards me. Help soften my husband’s heart towards me again.

I know how much you value marriage and you tell us in the bible how husbands and wives should submit to each other and love each other. This is how it should be, and this is how it used to be between us. I do love my husband and am willing to work towards the life we used to have together.

Bible Verse to Soften Your Husband's HeartYou are Love God, you love all of us, and sometimes some of your flock turn their back on you, so you know how it feels to be treated badly by those you love. It is hard to take, and hard to understand.

God, I ask that you help bring my husband’s eyes back towards me. Help him to remember all the good times we have had, and how much he loves me. This feels unbearable. I want us to be the husband and wife we once were.

I offer this prayer to soften my husband’s heart to you Lord because I know that you can see how much pain it is causing me to live with such coldness where there should be warmth and love.

In the bible, we are asked to be tenderhearted forgiving of one another. There is no tenderness between us at the moment. We once were tender-hearted towards each other and we forgave small misdemeanors because of our love. I want this back in my life.

I am asking you to remind him of my love and the feelings I know he has inside. Remind him of your words and your commands on how husbands and wives should treat each other. A husband’s duty is to pay attention to his wife’s needs in every way.

Please remind him of your simple and explicit command in Colossians that ‘husbands love your wives, and do not be harsh with them’ This is all I ask, love and the harshness to be gone.

I do not know how this division between us has happened. In every conversation it is tense and we are not soft with each other. He does not seem to hear me trying to fix things between us.

Help me find the right words to say to soften him towards me, help me find a way to fix this and bring us closer together again.

You are an all-powerful God, and you can intercede to turn him towards your words to help him listen to me when I try to help us come back towards the love we had.

I know that my husband still loves me deep down and I just want him to remember that love and to be able to show me the love he used to. You know how important love is Lord, you know that this is all that matters.

When he turns back to me and we are reunited in love I will give you full praise and thanks for your intercession, Lord.

I know you can make this happen Lord I know you want my husband to show me the love and care a husband should give a wife.

Help my husband find his way back to me with a heart full of love.

Lord I ask this with all my heart.


Prayer to Soften a Hardened Heart

Heavenly Father, I come to you today with a heavy heart. There is someone in my life who has hardened their heart against me and I don’t know how to reach them.

I pray that you would soften their heart and open their eyes to see how much I love them. I know that there is nothing too hard for you and I trust that you will work in this situation for your glory.

I ask all of this in your Son’s precious name.


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Bible Verses and Scripture to Soften Your Husband’s Heart

Scripture to Soften Your Husband's Heart

For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her. – Ephesians 5:25

This says something about the extent of the love Christ has for his people and his high expectations for how much love husbands should give their wives.

The Bible is full of verses that offer comfort and hope to those who are struggling. This verse reassures us that God is close to those who are brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. It’s often shared in prayer for your husband to love you again or a prayer to stop divorce.

This verse offers a message of hope and reminds us that we are never alone. When we are going through dark times, God is with us, ready to help us heal and move on. There can be no doubt that this verse has the power to soften even the hardest of hearts.

But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery – Matthew 5:32

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. – Genesis 2:24

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